I have a problem when it comes to buying shoes. Well, it's actually a problem with buying clothing in general. I'm cheap. Very cheap. I tend to have arbitrary price limits in my head and refuse to buy anything that costs more than that. This does come in handy considering our limited funds for things like clothing and shoes, but it also means that I tend to have a wardrobe of odd, non-matching, ill-fitting clothes. While it's true that I have found some great things at thrift stores and on clearance, I definitely have other clothes that are just plain lame. I will often choose to buy things because they are cheap, even sacrificing what I really want because it doesn't fit my predetermined price conventions. I am convincing myself to buy this jacket because it is comfortable, stylish, fits a wardrobe need (I don't have a blazer or jacket), and matches a skirt I already have. Oh and it comes in petite, so I can get a large that won't squeeze my tummy and not hav...
This is a giant plastic bag full of dirty diapers. It smells pretty bad. Every week when I haul the giant bag of plastic diapers wrapped in more plastic out to the trash can I feel terrible. I was blessed to grow up with a mother who was very environmentally conscious. Some of my earliest memories include gathering newspapers to take to the recycling center. Mr. Fob and I also make a big effort to be environmentally friendly. I walk to the grocery store; he walks to school and often takes the bus to run other errands. I probably could take the bus more often but I tend to wimp out when trips involve the kids. I also feel guilty each night as I drive back and forth to work by myself. But we do recycle everything we can and I almost always remember to bring my own grocery bags to the store. So the plastic diapers are one of the major things contributing to my environmental responsibility right now. The truth is, at this point in Little Dude's life it really wouldn't be too hard to switch over to cloth. Several friends have recommended these diapers and they look pretty cool. I don't think that dumping poo in the toilet and rinsing would be that much worse than wiping it off his butt. After nearly five years of dealing with poo I don't really care at this point. He generally only does it once a day now. We also have our own washer and dryer in our apartment, although the cost of hot water and running the dryer should probably be considered. And that's what a lot of our environmental issues come down to: money. I know in the long run that cloth diapers will save us money, especially if we have another kid. Unfortunately it is usually easier to go to Target and spend the $16 a month for a big box of Luvs than it is to plop down three or four hundred dollars to buy diapers for the next year. I've never felt like diapers were a financial burden, but the cost to the environment is really starting to get me down.
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I figured I was already sunk, and I went for convenience. :)
Disposable for the second: he pooped way more often and we only had one tiny bathroom in an apartment. We also moved twice in his first year of life. I went back to work full-time when he was 8 months. I tried later to switch him back to cloth and he went ballistic.
Now I'm doing a combination. The environmental costs, energy-wise are probably close for the two methods. Where you really get green is in the landfill department. The landfills issue is way bigger than the energy issue when it comes to diapers. This is a really good site:
http://libaware.economads.com/ddiapermyth.php
4.3 Million tons of diapers in our landfills each year. Leeching human waste into the ground. Big yuck.
Pros--Environment. Environment. Environment. And, for us, now, it is free, other than an extra batch or two of laundry a week. I also have a front-loading washing machine.
Cons--The front loading washing machine. :) It is much easier to dump a pail of diapers into a top loader. Extra laundry. More frequent changes.
I do, however, use disposable wipes. I've tried to do it otherwise and I think you just get them cleaner this way, especially if baby is a frequent and/or runny pooper. :) I have never used cloth diapers when I am out and about. I always do disposable if we are on the road: that is when you actually NEED the convenience. Do you need the convenience at home? When my kids start sleeping through the night, I use disposables. I haven't found a cloth diaper that can keep them dry and comfortable at night.
I am a huge believer in cloth diapering. And while I don't think mothers need to feel guilty about one more thing, I can't help but think there is a common sense factor in play as well. Cloth diapers began to get very unpopular just after the women's movement, and women in our generation have no idea what it meant to be a stay at home mom even fifty years ago in terms of child care and meal preparation. Women in our generation have way too much leisure time (or what our grandmothers would definitely consider leisure).
A funny anecdote--when I first made the decision, I called a friend who was a rather natural mama and asked her if she, or anybody she knew cloth diapered and what brand they used. She said, I've got a number I can give you, "My friend does everything: cloth diapering, homeschooling, you know."
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Since when did cloth diapering equate to home-schooling? I think this is part of the problem with most "typical" American mothers. We lump natural childbirth, cloth diapering, organic eating, homeschooling, storing 7,000 pounds of wheat, etc. into one big pile of "out there" ideas. I think mothers need to realize there are options for almost everything we do, and choosing one thing doesn't necessarily mean choosing another.
You've re-energized me. I'm going to do MORE cloth diapering this week.
PS I have a really supportive husband. Yours sounds the same. I would defintely NOT do it otherwise. And if baby doesn't have at least a year to go, you won't recoup you costs.
Linda.