Baby clothes with a message
Today Little Dude is wearing a cute, warm outfit that happens to have the following message written across the front: "My Favorite Things: Basketball, Dinosaurs, and Really Fast Cars". He has a lot of clothes that proclaim things about himself, like that he's an "All Star" an "MVP" and even a "Little Lumberjack". I think it's kind of strange how we project our own ideas onto babies like that. Maybe it's because they are so mute and so neutral that we want them to start taking sides. When I went to my conference last month one of the other grad students who went with us brought her baby as well. Her little girl is just a few weeks older than Little Dude, and one day we dressed them both in jeans and matching T-shirts that said "La Vida es Sueno" (the shirts were given to all the grad students with kids by some cool professors of ours). It was funny to see people's reactions--despite the fact that the babies looked exactly the same, when told their genders the reactions were invariably things like "what a sweet little girl" and "what a big, handsome boy". The kids were the exact same size, and these were mostly women who specialize in things like gender theory and women's writing. Even though I hate gender stereotypes, I unconsciously do the same thing too. I find the sports-themed baby clothes particularly ironic, since neither Master Fob or I have anything to do with sports whatsoever. I spent ten years in Provo without ever attending a BYU football game (I did go to a few rugby matches to watch my cousins play). Sometimes I joke that we need more shirts for Little Dude that say "I love books" or "English Major in Training" or even "Future Jeopardy! Champ". But then again, we're projecting. Maybe he will grow up to own a construction company, play football, or be a lumberjack. At least if he does we can just blame his baby clothes.
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BTW, Patrick had that same little Carter's outfit, when he was little (3-6 months maybe?).
http://www.thinkgeek.com/tshirts/kids/
Maybe?
I think, though, that just covers the computer geeks. Has anyone cornered the book worm market for kids' clothing?
Foxy, I think you should pitch it to the Little Einstein company to come out with a line of baby clothes with that theme. And demand a cut.
I purposely didn't allow any clothing with pictures or words on them. They were all stereotyping, and they all made me sick. But then again, th. wasn't designing clothing at that time. Perhaps he could set you (your kids) up?
I'm a lumberjack and I'm OKAAAAY!!!
Now that we have a girl, I forbade princess-y things. If she picks it one her own, fine. If it were more "A Little Princess" Princess, I think I'd be more amenable, but the Disney ones drive me up a wall.